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. features from the Italian group of car aid (contributions drawn from the foreign groups of of betrayed women, offenses, humiliated, refused give deprived of hope women and fans, that they want to understand) to not only nell.interrogare l.analisi but also to nell.interrogare the analysts, affinch?i they render account of how much risk. False, deceptive, dangerous and violent the pornografia?na. The dependency from the pornografia creates an extreme uneasiness in the dependent and the persons who have relationships d.amore with he. This dependency?n absolutely new phenomenon: the first person who of it has spoken in structured way?tata Kymberly the material very many Young. exists (would have to exist) sensibilit?la the acquaintance of the real human pulsioni, the choice aesthetic ethics and, the refusal of whichever prejudgment in the cares of the woman, the professional duty to inquire itself. The esperti. di which it is spoken in these rows they say things mistaken and deceptive in relation to the pornografia and to. The things that the experts say are mistaken because of their ignorance sull.argomento and because of theirs. The serious thing?he they speak about our life pi?ntima, net/news/testi/novita-99b/ndir0411992. 62 years, he lives and he works to Florence and he has two sons, Luca and Mark. Psychologist, psicoterapeuta?ccupato for many years of problems the International Institute of Sessuologia, where to?itolare of the instructions of psicoterapia and methodology of the Sexual Education. Interview to dottor the Marcello Perrotta of the National Institute of THAT the APPROACH To REVIEWS and pornografiche VIDEO CASSETTES re-enters in normalit?el the human or?egato behavior to some... The approach to the?ormale pornografia when it comes to lack a possibilit?iversa acquaintance, as an example the reading of books of sexual education advises to you from the parents of the boys. The approach to the pornografia has various motivations for men and... They have the same motivation, than?uella of desire of. Like gi?etto, this desire of discovery and acquaintance?n integrating passage that ago part of the development goddesses serene development of the development of the sessualit?egli adolescent. In contrary case, which damages risk to provoke... Obvious E' that the pornografia, above all that pi?sasperata, to pu?are an idea of the sessualit?he not?uella. I as an example refer to the shapes of violent pornografia girls risk to form a which had idea, difficultly. They exist of the cases of dependency from the pornografia, exactly like any other shape of dependency from toxic substances these cases that what pu?are.... Not, they said that true and own cases of dependency do not exist are some cases in which the high consumption of reviews or video cassettes?olto, per?on I would speak about dependency however, our center helps the subjects to inquire on the motivations of this cos?requente use of material porno, in order to understand in that way to be able to place remedy. Which type of council is felt of giving instead to the boys who... The council?uello to approach itself the acquaintance of sessualit?ttraverso various means from that one of the pornografia. For who it chooses however to approach itself the pornografia, my council?uello to make of a use moderated, without that this. Which type of attitude advises to hold the parents who ' scoprono' the sons interested to the pornografia.... I feel myself of giving the same council: bought to your sons. if we have very understood, this?l its L.approccio to the pornografia as normal alternative to the reading exists cases of dependency from the pornografia. to the boys: fairies a moderate use of the pornografia. to the parents who discover the sons interessati. to the pornografia: they of the good books of sessuologia. Perrotta, l.idea that it takes care itself of problems dell.infanzia and dell.adolescenza and of sexual education put me one deep of the Italian Association Sessuologia and Psicologia Applied (. Expert in problematic relative to the sessualit? to the brace relation, carry out attivit?linica, formative and of expert and scientific supervisor to the wireless transmission "Whim" (in wave on RTL102,5 Sunday evening) dedicated alla. to some years medical spreading on the health, the sessualit? dottor the Bernorio?nche the expert of problems inherent sessualit?che the work on the portale of Free sventurato council (segnalatoci from Emanuela) turned to Tiziana, that it had uncovered the archives porno of its man With to its council we bring back some comments of the group. I catch up to you with an article that I have hardly read (and that perhaps also many of you have gi?isionato) on the News of. Me it seems a comparison between "the expert of the theory". portale of the group in these last professional days its answers, does not deepen. only taken care not to create absurdities alarmisms, to reorganize the problem within "acceptable" borders. not to put itself in the cloth of Tiziana. If these are the aids that arrive from. FACTS TO FIND from your moglie, companion, davanti to the monitor while a filmino watches you or. The continuation ce you to it in your next letter will tell that sure "could" be much various one from that you have written for Tiziana. pornografiche in one folder of the computer of my partner images of the young girls in gross and disgustose positions. I have resistito to the temptation to cancel the rows, but they are still. We have been together for 7 years, but hour I cannot make less than to think that it is one nauseante person. of a man?n treasure for an other man ". Although you say that these are girls many young people, I suppose (and hope) that they are in realt?mmagini. and you would have something of pi?i which preoccuparti that one your personal feeling of annoyance towards the images against which you are account that for you and the many (or elsewhere) of the just similar one, this can represent one. You can also try reactions of the type: "they are not enough for he. It would prefer to have relationships with they anzich?on me reassures on the fact that in times and various cultures, the men have always sbirciato and sbirceranno images of pretty women. and typically, ci?on it has nothing to that to see far away with their feelings and their attraction for the own ones from the real woman whom it appreciates or that key of access loves only one to. They exist and are used from men (but also women) like entire hours in front of such images and it cannot any make less in order to excite itself, I would advise to you to postpone from yours modalit?Perch?on proporgli even than it makes you of the releases with conserving in its secret archives ci?he topics in an pleasant useful erotico game to rinsaldare does not know how much can be dangerous what it has written in its letter, than sar?etta from migliaia of persons (enough that in the article of free there is the word "porno" in order to make it to cliccare from crowds of people) that legittimate will be felt, in the case make pornografia use, since also an illustrious doctor it has said that. A beautiful step behind for all those that they were beginning to take conscience of their problem. If this?l level of the psychologists of outcry in Italy currently, I meditate to stop to make the engineer and to open a my study anch' I, worse than thus not creed of being able to make piece of the answer of "expert" me he has particularly hit: its rows of images for its moments pi?rivati characterize them, far away from the real woman whom it appreciates or that Gigabyte in the archives often loves only a key of access to the fantasy is used from men (but also women) like 2 sexual stimulus made to rethink to mine cancels to you with (indeed, in four thousand pieces, perch?no in place of cracking itself?briciolato): if I rethink very to all this of God that I have thrown me but perch?on I have known it this before. It was my private small door of access to the fantasy. that it proposed to me in order not to cancel it, this of the "key of access to the fantasy" me had not still proposed also from pornodipendente me vergognavo too much for propormela. ?n expert in sex, I am expert in exploration travels on. Hello Emanuela, is Mauro, substantially they are of agreement with you and with all the others that the article is only a ridicule and even puerile defense to the animal MAN, then I distinguish if la/le girls can or little being maggiorenni in order not to sconfinare in the ABUSIVENESS to my warning da' the feeling that lacks totally. I would want to come to acquaintance if dottor the Bernocchio found on its PC of house (admitted and granted that it it is not gia'. cartelle of photo and filmini pornografici unloads to you from its companion or worse from its figli/e would remain impassible like for the drama of Tiziana, than it has not grazed it, indeed it seems that between the lines it is written: E' ALL NORMAL SCHOOL, ABNORMAL SIX YOU THAT NOT. Mark is superd' agreement that our letters come recapitate.io dottor Bernocchio, not only for fargli understanding the error that it has store clerk, but also perche' make our conoscienza and account becomes that the DRAMA e' for many. Hello Emanuela, hello Mark, and hello to all demonstration of the fact that in Italy the problem is not known. I wonder like?ossibile that they give the permission to publish actions of absolute ignorance like in this case. Beloved Doctor, immedesimi in the cloth of Tiziana, or better comes to find this group, capir?olte perhaps pi?ose of how many believes. Excused if I insist on this topic of the article of the Dr.. But he continues to turn me for the head above all thinking that to that doctor persons entrust themselves whom they have. And costui pantry its councils with autorit?i the being. The article?n if a cumulus of sciocchezze if she were not for the Tiziana friend (I name you friend of office of all we), it invites it is made to photograph and then to put ' ste photo with to those of. Cos?he when this makes the pippe watching the giovincelle that they even take two, three, four men at the same time. and it comes outside the photo of moglie. the doctor, as it suggests to make these photos. To wide legs, even with some giocattolo in. And perch?on to invite some relative or some friend cos?L' Tiziana friend has said to them that she finds those photos gross and and it does not know to suggest better than it transforms itself. It says that this doctor rinsalderebbe theirs intimit?Caro concurs to say me them that it sar?ure an optimal gynecologist and esimio president of many emerite associations, but of what is the love and the erotismo and of what is the pornodipendenza, than of the love and of the erotismo they are the negation, b?Non us wants sure one bachelor in order to understand bestialit?i the all ci?Per Mark: you make of all in order finding the Tiziana friend, perhaps the friends of Free could give to you one hand. If it does not even go to end that it makes to photograph on the serious one we know that the pornodipendenza?n phenomenon a lot pi?iffuso of. We know that we 400 are only the tip emerged of iceberg of dimensions a a lot, a lot pi?randi. university professor and some of we have decided a priori that the partner of. If Tiziana had written "Beloved university professor, my partner passes the extreme uneasiness and, after to have uncovered its full computer of" pornografiche images "(they are words of the university professor), I have tried tremendous" a shock "(?na word of the university professor) and I do not succeed to see in he the person that up to now I have known". this has written, only in way pi?ngosciato. written this, would equally have approved of the answer of. Tiziana had written its letter to our group, as other Tiziana has written, would have answered like the university professor that maschilista affirmation that it considers the use of the pornografia from part of the men a fact to accept normally. Thoughts who the categorical affirmation "in times and various cultures, the men have always sbirciato and sbirceranno images of pretty women, knots or dressed that they are" can be in some way of relief for Tiziana and, wanting to make a limited speech we, could is it for the women who have thoughts that for Tiziana the affirmation that its partner has "classified its rows of images for its moments characterizes them , far away from the real woman whom it appreciates or that it loves ". it seems that to reserve my moments it characterizes them pi?rivati (personal artistic dimension, memory of my past, my emotions vanished and inneffabili, intimate considerations on my life, etc) to i my rows of pornografiche images is the exact description of pornodipendenti we, before taken ours of. Checch?e says the relativismo of professor the Bernorio. It does not say null of meaningful?n "council" that one to pu?icevere from the barber or the salumaio under house. "it leaves to lose", "not to make case ' sti males us they are all voyeur" that they are worthy of chiacchiere between comari and not of one. But in the cumulus of banalit?spirate from a fariseo relativismo ours?apace to thread of true pearls of wisdom, I do not return on I invite the Tiziana friend is made to photograph in desabill?ma felt what says on purpose of the photos: "[. I hope) that they are in realt?mmagini pornografiche of adult women. If to opposite they they were really images of under-age, your partner is wavering to the limit of. He does not say that?mmorale to watch photo of children. Perhaps I say one obvious what, but expert?tato superficial and the pressapochista one (and I do not know if it could make) perch?a better intentional to sminuire, to dampen and therefore not to listen to the sense of frustration of Tiziana that?rovata of forehead to the other women of its. In it always placed artistic innocents or but however "others". warmth n?reddo that the vostro/a compagno/a it guards in the computer images of others uomini/donne in placed plastic, n?he turns to watch altre/gli the others when walks with on. Tried to think to that risen of ricettacolo it is our computer: it makes also from com?desktop) side of the bed on which we hold the newspaper or the reviews or the books that we attend, and the photos place for three in the bed amenoch?on you are poligami/e. Ilaria Caremani not?cattiva.?olo ignorante. (in the sense that ignores the argument of which it writes). therefore?ostretta pedissequamente to repeat concepts that others have written, without preoccuparsi to verify of the veridicit. And then in the end of the piece its ignoranza. becomes farce. from Internet, it must specify that not all the persons who them. In the houses, on the workplace and to school, million persons every day send their email, search given for their studies and transactions, are kept. This type of customer does not remain raised all the night for colloquiare in chat linens, n?a to slaughter it dredges in the interactive games you bens?ontinuano lend attention to the relations that they have in the real life and they do not embezzle to their obligation and theirs responsabilit?uotidiane. precisazione of which we felt deeply the need, to which mai..Come saying: relatively to the alcoolismo, it must specify that all the persons who to table make a bicchierozzo of wine do not become alcoolisti then. Nevertheless, every day an always greater number of customers and familiar they comes outside with distressing storys made of digitare the own one password has given origin to a series of large problems in the moment in which they are succeeds in to you to consider Internet not like one technological instrument, but like one. The greater part of the studies lead on the argument has demonstrated that: all, cio?utte the persons of the world have emotional problems. or psychiatric anchor before is never. In our group there are 1500 enrolled and me it seems that nobody of we has spoken about psychiatric problems. our difficult lived familiar ones agree such that the 99,9 for hundreds of the persons have had difficolt?i. Based on which real statistics this is asserted. -... the men and women make use of the world on linens in way much various one: first you of aggressive type are pi?orientati towards the interactive games, you space sexually chat explicit and cyberpornografia, the second ones preprefer the chat room in order to connect friendships that give some type of support, for are always pi?omantiche and little sporcaccione of the men, the women are always of the large ones chiacchierone and they do not have one life autonoma like the men.... The women, moreover, live with relief the fact that no person met in Net can know the women cos?atue, than always take care themselves of their outer aspect not like the men, than they are not taken care minimally of their physical aspect turns out you of the studies about which Ilaria speaks is not made in base to a real analysis of the chat, but based on by now it tires and many Internet-employee adopt in Net personalit?rima of all?ene distinguishing tra chat and the pornodipendenza (where everyone?uello that? and then there would be from wondering in che measure the personalit?ssunta in chat does not correspond in some way to secret pulsioni. and mai -..?bagliato to believe that all Internet-employee are timid, many of they are in fact. - between Internet-employee the negation of the diffuse problem?olto, as moreover?er any I pi?requenti damages provokes you from such obesit?legata type...... not only little to the movement, but also to the habit of spiluccare. snack and merendine in front of the monitor or loss of appetite, tied to the estraniazione of the real world we are here enters to you truly nel. I suffer from pains reumati us from when I went to the universit? I have not verified no to sharpen itself, at least till now, of this excuse, Ilaria, after how much time it succeeds this passed hours and hours in front of the computer to the search. of that obscene santini and my sight. until ad?vertigini today psychological for the madness not having itself follemente passed all those hours, nausea and refusal (to the end of the sitting) per. Our ineffabile Ilaria, between the damages pi? you attend, dopo the merendine, glances at them to it, the pains reumati to us, the improbable impulses of vomito, after these throws to you l?on unwrapped nonchalance enumerativa ALIENATION, senza..evidentemente- to become account of tragicit?el the term and without knowing that the absolute alienation?l danno for the Come is used to say: di tutt' grass to sharpening itself of the comunicative deficiencies that are recorded between not succeeding pi?d to have a psychological relationship, affective, physical with our partner. of having nearly annoyance for its body. to feel a traitor. of living in the terror (and at the same time in the hope) that lei/lui it discovers to us. to see our partner that desperation situation always enters of pi?n one: all these things difficolt?amiliari.. are made a directory much punctual one of the danni pi?requenti. and per?i?imenticata of some other small, marginal danno.:. landslide total of own autostima. the progressive distrust in ours capacit?i to manage our deep sense of shame towards the external world:. telephone bills or rendering and credit cards always pi?ostose. impossibilit?i application to the job and allo. progressive isolation from the external world painful feeling to see our life to sbriciolarsi between the incapacit?i to see the women in various way who give those who have given you the information in order to write your article and d?oro that they are of the cialtroni. enough inexplicable, then?he if gone in the situated one, will see that in realt?.articolo it is divided in two parts: teledipendenza and teledipendenza say all a series of things, forts and decidedly interesting, that they could perfectly be used in order to describe in completed way la pornodipendenza. years, they are married from three and I have a daughter of two years husband always are found well me, even if to join not?tata the passion more rather to us but the plan than construction of the family, desire of having a house and the sons without difficulties finch?n day, making order in a ripostiglio, I have found true and just a pornografici film warehouse, one. However I have tried to speak of with my husband but it eludes the argument: he says that you it has made resorted for a short period, when I was in pregnancy and I could not have sexual relationships that not?ero: in the first place for the wealth and variet?ella the collection that are found to me under the eyes, in the second place perch?i they are shrewed that the films often come riavvolti. in me a refusal that it has to me removed from the intimit?essuale with he and he like person, that I feel affection from one pathology for me. I must say that the difficult point in the situation that you expose me to me seems yours difficolt? to clear a problem that, of for s?non introduces pathological characters to pass the hours to a monitor with hauls in hand, masturbandosi compulsivamente, being careful not to come. Tuo?ppassionato husband to of films one woman with a penis, one didietro, one in mouth, one in one hand, one in the other: gotten passionate. ma this?n drawn that it has in common with large quantit?i men who are not for this n?erversi n?solo perch?anti men involves nello. would have to simply motivate it with tautologiche reasonings p?eno a behavior of a person based on the fact that?n. but it has never felt to speak about "dependency from the pornografia". it wants, them shipment pages and bibliography pages on the argument. If then she wants to know of of pi?ia one look alle7000 lettere of. I wonder rather as never you do not succeed to face between you serenely the problem begins the male colpevolizzazione of the woman: Nausica, than what?he it does not go in you for which your husband disappointment sense addresses alla. that you do not succeed to exceed the ideal of a woman who to the unexpected one discovers that the man with which she has decided to divide the own life, with which has made one daughter?n man that dedicates its attentions to migliaia of false images and. Not?ui that it has spoken to she about its dependency and she not. E' be she that it has it uncovered and he has denied. On one side?ome if you had emitted a sentence before giving space to the defense: when you write "however I have tried to speak of with my husband" you express yourself showing she, Nausica did not have to speak of with the husband. Perhaps from the other side, as far as your husband?nvece an aspect of the erotica life, and of that one, than does not not only succeed there to share with you and that you d?n sense dottor Focchi, but it does not read the letters to them to which?agato in order to answer: Nausica has said "has found true and just a pornografici film warehouse, one collection of tens and tens to them of. But that it would have to make Nausica, to put itself in front of the monitor with to the husband and masturbarlo for hours it allows to insinuate an ulterior doubt: and perhaps not only of. Perhaps if it had spoken before its inclination you to you you would have reacted cos?purtroppo (and from pornodipendente I perfectly understand its forehead to the mountain of immondizia to which the husband, as it says?Forse if you had not condemned it before Nausica you have written in Italian (not in Etruscan, language still not very deciphered) the following words. however I have tried to speak of with my husband but it eludes the argument. he would not have closed itself in that closed way "in that way", it has eluded the argument and has mentito with. Creed that yours, pi?he a sessuologia problem, is a problem of brace therapy. I supply this information: the dependency from the pornografia does not have null to that to see with problems of sessuologia or relationships of. These problems are the consequence, the cause she could not answer: non I know that risponderti.. reading to the letter to its use and consumption, has answered stoltamente, on the base of one lazy male psychical inertia those poveraccio. (and I say poveraccio with a sense of participation to the anguish) masturba its pains with the pornografia from Internet, she continues to masturbare its brain with its guilty. ?sicologo Focchi, psicoterapeuta, psicoanalista, Teacher. Lazio and of the Tuscany, the Universit?per the Aliens of Perugia. lives alone by now from 4 years and that from many years it suffers from rising of masturbativa obsession, than today I discover to be a disease diffused enough called sexual dependency rich actors Americans have been made to soon ricoverare, but I that dress in sexual?ata a lot, to the et?i approximately 4-5 years tied to not?iminuita frequent masturbatoria, n?i?penta the masochistica fantasy that indeed?limentata with giornaletti of field. Subsequently I have in part realized some of these fantasies (alone), tying to me alone, playing with mollette, realizing fantasiose equipments for "punishments" to give and other things to me discovered of drugs to read then and found that under their effect me the dissosciation was pi?acile and therefore the attainment. Under drugs a part of me was slave driver and a part victim and the two interacted between they uncovered Internet that allows me through chat being involved persons to the aim not to meet them seriously but to render mine. Useless to say that they have entered in a shape of schiavit?era, this time, made of cerimoniali, repressed voglie and as many senses of guilt for the actions that upset my affective and sexual life with the partner. a sure way two screw, public and a private one removes enthusiasm to the sexual action made with the partner that it feels (and?mentre I complete the sexual action task to my fantasies made that not to succeed to withhold me giocherellare with my sex to the times avoiding is accompanied the orgasm for fear pregiudicare my sexual performance with the partner but obviously in this way sortisco the result equally to avoid the comparison with my partner who knows all but that not the chip ax obviously, of good degree and?olto cooled in my comparisons perch?ente that I make the love above all in order to please she, while for me my true one appeals to to?iocare like Also I have noticed that if for a sure period I abstain myself then and I make the love with my partner, the day after it wants compulsiva?ortissima for which I dedicate myself to my rituale, also perch?ono content of to have gratified my partner for a po' and therefore of being able to always return to my taste as I say myself very knowing that not sar?os?mio rituale ideal today?uello of being of forehead to Internet, knot, cigarette that remembers me the spinel that I avoid of purpose to buy perch?o that when ce I have it I do not succeed in controllarmi. like slave, we speak about what to pu?are itself but without the real intention to only proceed in the encounter for to render women dominatrici I must myself be rassegnare to contact males who not?erto the same thing but always something in order to render my fantasies. Or telephone to the persons who I find in announcements (in this case women) that a boy for wedding or other tries and establishes to chiacchiere while masturbo but without to make it me. It appeals to to me to think that truly the incontrer?che pregiudico in this case my relationship but then when the orgasm sopraggiunge also the reason returns and naturally me pento. to interrupt this cycle recently and there are successful (15 days most loaded as soon as me?embrato that my partner denied to me one exited a po' for ripicca a po' for other I have resumed in mine. Above all when they arrive of the external agents, anxiety, tension (part of the day job alone in house) or other the masturbarmi represent the way in order to absent to me from me, from my problems, also only for a moment that it becomes very pi?empo, a comfortable shelter where riposarmi. frustration not only for the affective relationship but for mine. I cultivate dreams and artistic ambitions then but the evening or when they are free step my time with the penis in hand as I turn to you in attended of one answer ". you would have to change account with which you write, "***" (N.?l name of famous personage masked of world of comic strips), 1) not?ello n?rtisticamente intriguer, indeed?n po' obvious 2) changes begin from small things not give large 3) sar?robabilmente known and, if you want to change, you must to exit from that your process of masturbazione oral rinsecchisca, you write less and you be pi?intetico, above all when you write to persons who know the arguments of which features and that they do not have need of they increase the confusion and they slowly put in second the elements that lead to the true problems to send this and mail, rileggo with cure and I modify how much I write perch?a extemporaneous communication ?na shape of subliming of the subliming to pu?ssere pi?omoda of the relationship and this?a.?come to see a video that it resumes a beach, instead that it are and to take a bath to us I confirm that all ci?he I have said means ci?he I have said in order to begin you would have to change the account with which you write is said commonly: chi very it begins? met?ell' work. Masini, the?isperato boy, does not succeed devout? to manage its life, says to them sono entered in a schiavit?era shape. and come.primo.cosa it says to change it the nick name, perch?on?gliene to pu?regare to the boy to change to that stupid and?ecessario that your process of oral masturbazione as it allows itself to use with that boy the term oral masturbazione when?roprio the masturbazione its problem total: rising of obsession masturbativa. finally taken conscience, has accepted of possession. the problem (and it would have to know that?uesto the first great step), have taken the run-up and, with the heart in hand, its history of anguish and desperation has told all to them (and it would have to know how much?erapeutico to tell for extensive the own history perch?ui the history in realt?on has told to she, dottor Masini to it, but to if same) and it blocks it dicendogli of being pi?intetico. in order to make to still sink of pi?l boy, knows them in chair and she says above all to it when you write to persons who know sure, the fact that it has the sfrontatezza. to describe to its ideal rituale (with all its particular) to persons as it che does not have need of cos?ettagliate information, for she?Mentre instead the boy it wanted, with a beginning of liberatorio action cos?inutamente, to oggettivizzare those rituali, described them she in order to begin to watch them from outside, in theirs. the confusion of its confused mind, dottor Masini, than up to now not?iuscito to say to that boy a single word that in some way could alleviargli the pains and could fargli catch a glimpse one slowly puts in second the elements that lead to the true problems boy with mirabile lucidit? capacit?i synthesis: the masturbarmi it represents the way in order to absent to me from me, from my problems, also only for a moment that it becomes a lot pi?empo, a comfortable shelter. And it does not say to it not even: Bravo, in spite of your anguish you have understood from where you must leave in order to recover same you. then, last the two paragraphs: the vaniloquio absolute. I have a single hope, dottor Masini, than that poor, heroic boy has not read to its answer of dottor the Masini and creed of being able to draw that this inquisitorio tone?i?datto Criminal Court of Appeal that not to one contrary to any law of the psycology, neurotics and before the shape of vent for one person in this difficolt? to come down better in the particular minimums (that however?empre of the other often undertaken road from such persons, cio?el not to say alcunch? to assist to one of the first sitting of psicoterapia of a boy in order to become account of this concise being in order to put in evidence from the other part that must only know of the symptom but not of the written cause could calmly make riletto part confirms that all ci?he I have said means ci?he I have said ": Dear University professor, that boy in its tremenda.spero that it is also she. Dottor Masini, you do not know absolutely null dell.argomento. effort of sincerit?ompiuto from the boy of 33 years. ?ocente Masini near the Universit?i Palermo, Bottoming drills, "the Three?l director of the plan" To prevent?ossibile. To recover from the?ossibile sexual dependency Men and women who live obsess to you from the sex and from Italy they are 6%, second an esteem of the world-wide Organization. Insomma, beyond 3 million and 400mila persons who. Every moment of the day?candito from thoughts to erotico background, without they are badly, they become aggrressivi. of Participation on Pathologies Compulsive) and the Cedis (Center of search and treatment for the sexual dependency) are two centers specializes you for the treatment of the sexual dependency. Siipac, has explained: Attualmente the center has in cure a hundred of persons employee from the chat erotiche, the pi?nvasive to level of dependency, and thirty erotiche patients have a large one to be able to mainly establish a dependency for two reasons, that they reside in two characteristics of the chat same: the escape from the realt? the immediate one. Chat the linens, and pi?n general Internet, offer an excellent instrument of escape from the realt? of escape from. The virtual world?na realt?arallela in which pu?nteragire itself with the others without being recognized, where personalit?iberamente to pu?sprimere the own one without being fear. ?per this that the chat they are cos?ffollate from pedofili or from individuals that often introduce other perversions a identit?ittizia, roles can be played invent and free debit simply to you vent to the own fantasies of the instrument?n' other characteristic that establishing itself of the dependency facilitates, in fact being seated to house ours to pu?ntrare itself in a world where limits of space or time do not exist, where to pu?nteragire itself with a limitless number of persons without to move itself to n?ssere seen from nobody, in the total anonymity. In the first place in order to decide to cure itself?ecessario to recognize of having a problem, to depend on something, one is it substance or. This acknowledgment becomes still pi?ifficile if the object of the dependency?n behavior, in this case. The sex?n need innato in the man and the persons with sexual dependency makes initially hard work to represents for they a problem, to the par of drugs for Inoltre, in the moment in which they acquire this change, often is inhibited from senses of shame in revealing They has difficolt?el to speak to liberations about their problem also in a psicoterapia context, because of the ethical and moral principles that the societ?i it transmits. I have inasmuch as various diagnostic categories exist: which are. The tipologie of sexual dependency that I have met with pi?requenza are those tied to the fruizione of chat erotiche, are. Which?a percentage of succeeding of the therapy and how much time?(A rebelled exclusion of disturbs of neurological nature after the succeeding percentage of and the necessary time depends - the motivation of the subject, cio?uanto he has taken to conscience of the problem and how much?orte the push to wanting to exceed it - From how much time the subject has developed the dependency, therefore how much this has become stabilized in its life a lot important in the resolution of disturbs deeply from been involved dependency in the problem of the subject, even if in appearance the dependency from the sex seems a disturbance of all. ?per this that often finds a sure resistance to the demand to be involved the entire family in the riabilitativo process, but?mportante ribadire as it is instead an optimal key of participation in the therapeutic job, than sure increases the probabilit?i to obtain happening. Guerreschi has made a long one. specifies and circostanziata analysis of our dependency and then, per?se from there it exits with this thing crowds of the participation of the family: moglie, sons, uncles, grandfathers, grandsons, all been involved in the guarigione work. Prof Guerreschi, like ago she not to know that for pornodipendenti we the solo to say it to our companion represents one. And then, all this people that what would have or be able to make in order to help me to uscirne. less than for famiglia. does not mean the moglie (or the husband). this case seems to me absolutely necessary to specify it. they are develops also of disturbs psicofisici to you, the somministrazione of drugs adapts to you turns out very useful for of which drugs she goes raving, Mr. university professor alludes to the bromide that was given to the conscripts in order to make that not serious what, a madness of our brain hurt from chiss?uali. happening, then we enter in a very various one, from the point of view necessary approximate time the guarigione, can indicate. What?er she the time of guarigione.: The moment from which?reso conscience of the disease and the moment in which sentiamo. of being, in some way, free also not excluding possibilit?i fallen back. The esteem made from the therapist approximately the duration of the therapy, after which the patient to have alone in. The period of time that goes from the condition of total dependency to the condition of controlled dependency. To the beginning of the question it cites all a series of factors gives one precise quantification: anno/un a year and means which data it hour quantifies this time to speak about tremendous fallen back after 3,4 months of sobriet?Lo Be participates or is costs that the private ones. The State participates in part: the Asl pu?nfatti to recognize the sexual dependency examinee the relation that the therapist. In this case the Asl reimburses all the costs of the therapies that, after diagnostic organization begins them, is. We can say that not?bbligatorio interesting has one medium approximate of 38-40 years a question not to answer in not meaningful given pornodipendente way?n to the ends of gaining from letters of the enrolled one to our group, I think that the pornodipendenti et?ei go from the 12 years in ahead of the pornografia on Internet begin also before, but without che - probably still the phenomenon of the dependency is risen. Guerreschi, than if it read 7000 letters of our group, probably would have a po' less. Expert for problems of alcohol, drugs and gambling. (Societ?taliana Participations on Pathology Compulsive) Ideatore and founder of the Comunit?erapeutica for...... Titolare di the Rubriche of psychological advising on linens. I place my problem, than?niziato approximately three years f?sono pap?i a child of 18 months accountant commerce graduate and collaborate cone one advising study. In office I find for the greater part of the day alone and here "consumption" my the following time in way: every day drainage one sure quantit?i clips porno on the PC. During the download of it I visualize the content, they me procurano one strongly excitation. me masturbo repeatedly catching up various orgasms until tiring to me, after some day with (a sure misfortune) I eliminate the material porno from the PC and me. Arrival to pass also until 6-7 hours to the day. They have entered in a vicious circle where "the healthy" part of me does not succeed to control that one "vitiated", all ci?i it creates problems in the daily paper, poich?i meeting with the rear job and from some time I neglect "sexually" my moglie, beyond to one sure one answer with some indication. in merit. That the accountant job commerce graduate is not much creative knew, but that in order to break off the ruotine the commerces graduate escogitassero a method of this kind were not discounted. To part the struck one, task that the solution is to succeed? to exceed this obsession of the download porno. taken care or unfortunate for some other thing and this they play not?ltro that its personal droga. in order not to think pain to concentrate itself better on the problems that they are to mount: ?tanco. I believe that dottor the Gatta you play to make. Less than, dramatically, you do not play to be the pi?ragica hypothesis for its patients it has written a letter (than?dentica to the migliaia of letters that we have received in the group), where it writes "have entered in a vicious circle where" the healthy "part of me does not succeed to Ancona, it says to it that the solution to?mettere to watch watching pornografia and he, in Ancona, says that the solution to it?Graaaaaaaazieeeeee Mr. author of books on health and. Its capacit?i to intuire from the first moment a problem and to indicate the solution of the same problem, this its capacit. of my fiancèe that gives little days e' enrolled to situated a whichever hour it connects in Internet and ago "giochini porno" with one young child that knot makes what it asks to them controls that it has not written, writes to them approximately theirs. End I could here also say that it was "desire of porno" common to many men be perfect: the book of martyrs, fantasiosa, without tabu'. "game online" goes to minare our relationship from a side of other. Tests to make she, gratis, what l.altra ago to payment it has the passion to see these things on the screen of the PC, enough. Dottor Walter Ancona, true she?n, distilled. that the second hypothesis from advanced me in the previous letter is. Perch?li men watches the porno. Without excesses, ago part of the male nature. One passion to leave living without stressare, and stressarsi. Perch?li men watches the porno. and inasmuch as with my boy I have a dialogue much open and we speak very, a po. of time it makes I have asked to it (simply for curiosit? in order to understand l' male universe better.) perche the men I feel the need to watch material porno even if have the girl and one sexual life. A my confidandosi beloved friend told me that same it did not understand perch?uando had the girl and went well pi?he to all the levels nearly was obsessed from the porno. when instead they are themselves leaves you did not think pi?mio boy to us that I have not still known a man who did not watch regularly or nearly the porno and that they have succeeded in to think what from a life says my mother to me cio?he the men is genetically various from the women and that?ormale who watch the porno or that beautiful girls watch le who pass with various eye from as we could watch a boy and in pi?i he said that we women would have to accept that the men sooner or later make them can to pass also years but sooner or later they make it. me it badly made to feel those things I could not believe that on the face of the earth a man did not exist who saved itself from this legge natural that seemed that it justified the man returning to the speech of the porno, my boy has said to me that second he, the boys who watch the porno when they have the girl?erch?ono insoddisfatti. then I have I dictate that therefore ALL we and it does not have to see it like something of dirt but like a gift of beautiful breast?na exciting vision but, to times?i?ccitante the vision of a breast not bellisssimo that the that one, beautifulst, of the own single moglie perch?' eccitamente derives from the been strange one. The image of a woman who empty get looses a process of excitation in the perch?ttiva male its sessualit?Dopo po.di a time that image, also the pi?ttraente and sensuale, do not excite devout? in order to try the same effect the male. ?sceno for someone he becomes per?ccitante for an other and main problem that the sessualit?ggi tragic spread of the excitation in all lives?a its shapes. A male receives approximately 500 erotici stimuli to the day and ci?roduce one overload tension that pu?ondurre or to the iper. Before producing to such effects the syndrome from excitation he leads to one vision and living of sessualit?utto centralized on the eccitatoria phase of the relationship and a lot little on the tactile physical phase. And then the preparatoria phase of the relationship assumes an extraordinarily great importance perch?pi?he the pleasure - in kind reduced to a culminating moment - comes lived from the male one risen of eccitatorio delirium that?onfuso from the female with the dolcezza of the preliminary matters. and il narcissism to feel itself wished. Fortunately the misunderstanding disvela otherwise would not be many. In order to tranquilize it a po. I must per?roporle a simple reflection on the relationship that runs, in my automobile between small engine. The starter serves in order to make to leave the motor. if in fact the machine part and I do not prime the march with the energy of the starter the machine makes very little road (some meter and then the battery is unloaded), if instead the motor it is put in motion (and nobody extinguishes it) the machine remains in motion for hours, days or also years (always that the benzine full load is rifared). I want to diminish the important of the small engine (the excitation) and to emphasize that one of the passion (the motor) semprech?on comes extinguished (as in kind he happens) from intrusivit?el the feminine thought (and feminist) that he goes to wonder things that they do not belong to its lived without moreover disporsi to comprise as the sexual lived one of the males is very various from that one of the females and that if the males intrufolassero in the same way in the sentimentalistiche folds of the females (opening the eyes on the feminine erotismo in following a telenovela, as an example - place prince of the feminine masturbazione -), would gain some riletto three or four times this text trying to trace of the logical nexuses, of the ideas distinguished "(as our Cartesio thought was indispensable for every reasoning) in what the Masini writes esimio, but sincerely not is. To this point, not being able to assume that Dr. Masini has the clear and distinguished ideas cos?oco, the only hypothesis to?ensare that they have been of particular the typographical refusi would be interesting to understand what wants to mean "pi?he the pleasure comes lived from the male one risen of eccitatorio delirium that?onfuso from the female with the dolcezza of the preliminary matters. and il narcissism to feel itself. Beloved esperto., you would have to know that in the sexual relationship it appeal to and eccitatorio delirium is two ways to define the same one. And, for a male, l' piacere/delirio emotion (in the pregnante and deep sense of the two words), for being able to sussistere presumes the preliminary cake existence and presumes that also the female tests the same identical emotion seems, then, that it is unjust towards the male to say that only the trivial one to define "narcissism" this moving motion of the mind. But the Masini raggiunge.Invece, true, absolute and incomprensibile delirium makes all the speech on intrusivit?el the feminine thought. Vincenzo Masini, you come in our group and you read to all letters of the pornodipendenti women and the women of i. And then we discuss a po' about the sexual lived one of the males very various from that one of the females. Vincenzo Masini, the mother of the girl who you has written perhaps?na person not much cultured one, in any case pertaining to un.altra. And aveva twisted I march, perch?ra succube of stolta the maschilista culture then dominant psycology of the job and of the organizations, it has achieved master in organizational Sciences near the S3 Studium of Rome specializing itself in the field a selection and formation clinical sessuologia where it has achieved the diploma of adviser in specialization in short Psicoterapia to strategic approach (ISP). It works in the field of the human resources near a private structure and exercises the free profession. Enrolled to the White one of the Order of. I write in merit to a person to which they are tied from 4 years. To the beginning of our relationship, the obvious "stranezze" from me perceived and emphasized pushed it to confidarmi that problem had pornodipendenza problems (currently much diffusing and of which, creed, it is spoken too much little) and often it felt the requirement to go to Attribuiva these behaviors to the dissatisfaction perceived in its. Months f?alla light of little clear behaviors, I put it shoulders to the wall and come outside 4 years, MINE 4 years, in which the same behaviors they have been repeated. I speak about hours passages masturbarsi in front of the PC, telephone calls mined its economic, working (?n professional), sexual and affective sphere (if we consider the continuous imbalances that such situation has brought to our history). Next to the bachelor in psycology I have tried to comprise "the problem" from a sure angle-shot, not losing sight above all the desperation with which the my companion it has told its conduct to me, desperation that came pi?al dependency sense that perceived, rather than from the fear to lose to me. They are sure of the love that tries for me and also of the attraction sense that nutre in my comparisons but in parallel with this I have made that. I ask "to frame" the problem to me?na dependency, one lack. And above all there?na possibililit?he this man alive its. In attended of one answer porgo the my pi?ordiali salutes. from what it says to me, could be be a matter of the so-called one sexual addiction that is the sexual dependency, in this case sure thanks to the aid of a sexual therapist this person potra' to find again its serenita', I become account pear tree that also yours rapporto.e' be mined and would have therefore to understand how much also this uneasiness can be correlated to your relation. of sure its studies it they will be able to facilitate in managing the situation but e' fundamental the opinion and the support of an external therapist is one person distracted enough, much not lend attention n? what she reads n? what she writes. To Rome the immediate retort to this blank one would be "blank.": the girl writes a letter deprived of hope ("MINE enough 4 years"), speaks about the desperation of its companion and it answers. A lot was worth that the point put us also pushed to confidarmi that had pornodipendenza problems ". the girl (next to the bachelor in psic) the diagnosis. she had to be a matter itself of the so-called one sexual addiction ": the girl asks them "to frame" the problem. and it answers could deal itself, and then she says "the so-called one sexual addiction". the so-called one, a lot in order to increase the uncertainty of the girl: but, cabbage, blessed, the sexual addixcion?odificata quite in the DSMIV (that?utto to say: if he is l?vuol to say that also he knows himself they know) and you say so-called you also make the translation from English in Italian (scanso of. Per?oi you from one resume yourself, and, to the demand for clarity from part of the girl, truly brilliant and resolutive answer: "sure thanks to the aid of a sexual therapist this person potra' to find again its serenit? the man of the girl?isperato perch?a dependent conscience to be, been involved and mined its economic, working sphere (?n cio?a destroyed its life, and you it from the usual stitica ricettina that from to all, with which ritrover?a serenit?ragazza says that also in the previous relationship it had the same behaviors now and then she, girl he says with large lucidit?Comportamenti that they have been involved and mined its economic, working (?n professional), sexual and affective sphere (if we consider the continuous imbalances that such situation has brought to our history)"and you say to them" you become account pear tree that also yours rapporto.e' be mined " just he diminishes?ei that you that has said, not you you of six yield account that the relationship between the two?rmai mined becomes bad grotesque: the girl says you that gi?on the previous relationship he was behaved in that way, then says "considers the continuous imbalances that such situation has brought to our history" (has understood blessed says "that such situation has brought to our history", cio?he the dependency situation has carried continues imbalances to their history) and you say "you would have therefore to understand how much to them also this uneasiness you can be correlated to your relation". In other words: beloved girl, but six sure one that doctors of the mind are not also you po' responsible of the pornodipendenza of your man many of you to say this thing to the one woman.